Have you ever been somewhere when you see what appears to be
the most unlikely couple where maybe a physically undesirable
man is with a physically desirable woman who is hanging from his
arm and seems to be madly in love with him? Almost immediately
the thought may run through your mind, “How in the world did he
get her?” The answer will almost always be a simple one . . .
success. This seemingly “unattractive” man given his physical
appearance is in reality a highly desirable catch to a woman . .
. because as the odds dictate, he is most likely “monetarily
successful.”
Each passing generation of man, just like animals, passes on a
recipe for success. Social Darwinism is alive and well, even in
today’s culture. A woman has a relatively low ceiling compared
to a man when it comes to the amount of children a woman could
theoretically rear or produce in a lifetime. Therefore, a woman
wants the man who either is the biological father, or the man
who will raise the child, to offer something uniquely separate
from other men, and that is, she wants her baby or babies to
have EVERY opportunity possibly offered to a person in the
society. Of course this is a gross generalization of the entire
gender, but most mothers’ number one desire in life is to have
great opportunities offered to their children.
This dramatic generalized principle is important because it
vastly improves an individual’s perception of the world around
them. It also allows men to better focus on the specific thing
they want most . . . women. Women not only want a man that is
successful but they most often will also accept a man who has a
great potential for success. Through the lens of this
perspective, so much of what men do is to attract a woman. Take
for example a man who has little interest in going to college
and would do just fine working an eight to five job building
homes making enough to live, eat, buy man toys and support his
vices. But then consider that this same man has a desire for an
attractive woman and she does not consider his job as being
successful and will not be attracted to him unless he goes to
college. Good chance the man will go to college.
Another example can be illustrated by the true story of John
and Jane. John is an all around incredible man who has so much
to offer in ways of great looks, personality, morality, etc.
John falls madly in love with Jane who is an equally incredible
woman and desires little more than to have him marry her. The
problem is, as great as she realizes he is, she for some reason
cannot commit to marrying him. Well, as we could have guessed
given the success principle, John’s simple solution was for him
to figure out his finances, get a realtor, and purchase a nice
piece of real estate or a simple home in the quiet suburbs of
Arizona. The home was a mental trigger of success in Jane’s
mind, and within a month, after two years of this man diligently
trying to woo the woman, she suddenly falls madly in love with
him and realized she could never live without him.
As a brief summary, women in general are deeply and
instinctually attracted to a man’s success, realized or
potential, more than any other attribute a man may posses. As a
basic applicable principle, a man buying real estate will sling
shot himself up several levels in his attractiveness. The best
thing a man can do is live his life in a way to be able to
purchase a home.
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